Why do we always want what we can't have?

While surfing the internet, I have found one really interesting article:

"Why do we always want what we can’t have?"
---Is it human tendency or human weakness? Are there things that are so precious to us that we prefer to long for them instead of just letting go? It sounds quite silly to pine over someone or something that is unattainable. Maybe human nature dictates what we are meant to have, or not, or maybe its destiny.Sometimes the person we most want is just beyond our grasp, could it be that we only want them because we know they are out of our reach? And when they do come to us, we have moved on, and then its their turn to want what they could have had.Maybe we cant always have the one we want, but, we can all want to have.Wanting and pining sometimes bring us some kind of perverse pleasure. Why can’t we just use that passion to seek not for what we can’t have but to find the one that is waiting for us? Love always has a way of striking us blind, you’d think we’d learn but we fall for it every time.I read the other day that true loves have roots that grow towards each other from underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two. Love comes around very few times in a lifetime, if any at all, why do we always choose to wait for what we can’t have instead of moving on to find the next tree?----

I reckon somewhere along the line i find myself related so much to this article, or should I say I am very stubborn not letting go of stuff that I declared they are mine or want them to become mine in the future. 

I read the other day about one thing that us Virgos are so scared of facing, that is "Rejection". I admit it is my ultimate fear, I am scared of being rejected, of giving out too much and getting back too little.....Although, I act ignorant, don't care but I actually do, like every girl, I do feel sad and hurt however I just pull it off very well. I tend to remember more about bad things happened to me, not good things and let them dwell on me, it's a bittersweet pain. I don't talk much about my feelings cuz i know noone can understand, so whenever things go wrong I will keep my silence. A friend told me "if you don't speak it out, noone can read your mind". Maybe he is right but as said I am quite stubborn so eventually I'll be silent......Back to the question "Why do we always want what we can't have?" To me, it is more like human stubbornness, we can't admit defeat, it is about our pride.....That's why, I am usually hurt with not letting things go....

It's always easier said than done, but 8 months is a really long time, long enough to forget everything and move on.....Long enough to be hurt and gained more experience to face the future....

In conclusion, as my birthday is coming up, every year apart from wishing for my mum and my career, I have always been wishing the same wish that I can eventually find a person who can communicate with me and understand me. Hopefully this wish will come true very soon 

What am I listening to tonight?- Always Online by JJ Lin 

If love can just grow and never end........

"A colour-changing life with stubborn tensions
Crazily emerges

The gentleness being tested by a single party abiding by you
But it seems like something is still missing

Into the distance, love flies in the skies
It doesn’t matter if the wind stops
Just because you always say
Everything will be okay

Are you ready 321
I’m always online
1 to 1 With you 1 to 1
Love starts to spread
oh…oh… We become one, flying past the sky, silver river 

Counting down 321
Deleting away my loneliness
More and more???? More and more becoming memorable
I’m always online Love brightens up, love smiles, I’m always online......"